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Haunted
(Note: This was written by Breda, of the blog, "The Breda Fallacy". It was first posted in October of 2007 and subsequently re-posted by the Buckeye Firearms Association.)
They've found a body in the woods. Again. Another missing girl,
woman, sister, mother, friend strangled, stabbed, shot, raped,
mutilated, dismembered and tossed in the brush, in a ditch, beside
railroad tracks, in a dumpster, in the ocean like so much garbage. The
details don't really matter. They were all guilty of nothing more than
perhaps smiling at the wrong man, speaking to the wrong stranger, being
at the wrong place at the wrong time, not being wary enough while going
about their daily lives, not realizing that they were prey, that
someone was watching them, following them and thinking violent thoughts
about them.
The photographs their loved ones give to the police are all eerily
similar..a sideways smile, a dream behind the eyes. They could be me,
or you, your best friend, your neighbor or your mother. And then the
body is found and the coroner talks about needing dental records, about
decomposition, about DNA. I can never get over the horror of it, those
women, their thoughts and hopes and precious temples of flesh so
quickly turned to nothing but scraps of meat and bones and if never
found, nothing. Forgotten, except for the whispered hometown legends
about the girl who got lost, disappeared without a trace.
How fragile we are.
Every time I hear another one of these stories, I decide that this
will never happen to me. That I will not be a victim. A man will never
understand the fear a woman has walking across a dark parking lot
alone. How it may be a risky thing to take a walk by yourself around
your own neighborhood. How no amount of judo or karate will make a
difference if you are a small female person and there's a large male
person who's running after you or, God forbid, has gotten close enough
to put his hands on you.
I have two defenses. #1, listen to that internal warning alarm and
pay attention to my surroundings and the people in it. #2, get my
concealed carry permit. I'm halfway there.
"Abe Lincoln may have freed all men, but Sam Colt made them equal."
Women, this is for you too. Don't be afraid of protecting yourself. You really are worth it.
Posted 07:24AM Jun 24, 2008
by MCSA